Worship Songs: My Savior My God, Breathe, Worthy is the Lamb
Topic: Word of FAITH
Forsaking
All
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Trust
Him
Sunday, September 30, 2007
Painfully Honest - Sept 30
I know I need to stop and come to reflection, honest to myself and before God. I have been avoiding it subconsciously or consciously. At first, it was the excuse of being tired, being busy, ... Then I just plainly ignored the little voice. Until now, I do need to pause and regroup.
I realized that once again I have been relying on my flesh instead of the power of the Holy Spirit. I have been doing it by my own strength. I have once again been overtaken by the pressure of the world, by the busy-ness, ... I need to come back to the LORD and be grounded once again. I long for the stability, for the calmness, and for the fulfilled-ness of my life when I am in Him and have the deep awareness of His presence in my life. I won't be honest if I pretend it is so now. Time to stop and refocus.
Something to think about: * Is my thesis/or whatever the Ph.D. program takes more important than my relationship with God? The answer is simple. However not so for the daily living part of it. The shouting of daily demands is sometimes too loud and it distracts me from seeking God's sweet whisper. Dear LORD, here I am again. Back before YOU and ask YOU to restore me with Your healing touch and Your loving hand. Here I am once again to lay down my life in front of YOU in exchange for YOUR burden and YOUR yoke. Dear LORD, I come to YOU seeking Your wisdom and Your guidance for my life. Dear LORD, I want more of YOU, more than anything else in the world.
* What is at the root of my wasting time checking E-mail and facebook too frequently and watching movies (or seeking other entertainment) with exhausting abandonment? Is it loneliness? Is it the longing of being connected? Is it the longing to be known? Am I looking for the desire of my heart at all the wrong places, when I need to come to the LORD with my broken heart? Is it pride that keeps me from acknowledging my loneliness? Dear LORD, I do long for a relationship that is for life with another, with the one YOU have made me to be a help mate for. Dear LORD, will you give me the strength and courage to acknowledge the pain of not having and longing? Will you help me stop pushing away those feelings and hiding? Will you help me focus on my relationship with YOU at the mean time? Will you prepare our hearts and prepare the time to come? Dear LORD, please draw me closer to you the next time I want to hide from my longings and my loneliness, and the next after that, ...
Dear LORD, I do come to YOU for help to give me a humble heart. Dear LORD, help me be grateful for the blessings you have given me and the gifts you have bestowed on me. Dear LORD, keep me humble that I will not think of myself higher than I actually am. Dear LORD, I do want to lift up the whole issue of my thesis to your hands. Will you help me defend it on time? Now I have done my best. Dear LORD, may YOUR power be made perfect in my weaknesses! May YOUR name be glorified and blessed through my thesis~ Dear LORD, give me the strength to press on. Hold me tight so that I will always hold on to YOU instead of anything else in the stormy times. I love YOU, LORD. Help me love YOU more!
I realized that once again I have been relying on my flesh instead of the power of the Holy Spirit. I have been doing it by my own strength. I have once again been overtaken by the pressure of the world, by the busy-ness, ... I need to come back to the LORD and be grounded once again. I long for the stability, for the calmness, and for the fulfilled-ness of my life when I am in Him and have the deep awareness of His presence in my life. I won't be honest if I pretend it is so now. Time to stop and refocus.
Something to think about: * Is my thesis/or whatever the Ph.D. program takes more important than my relationship with God? The answer is simple. However not so for the daily living part of it. The shouting of daily demands is sometimes too loud and it distracts me from seeking God's sweet whisper. Dear LORD, here I am again. Back before YOU and ask YOU to restore me with Your healing touch and Your loving hand. Here I am once again to lay down my life in front of YOU in exchange for YOUR burden and YOUR yoke. Dear LORD, I come to YOU seeking Your wisdom and Your guidance for my life. Dear LORD, I want more of YOU, more than anything else in the world.
* What is at the root of my wasting time checking E-mail and facebook too frequently and watching movies (or seeking other entertainment) with exhausting abandonment? Is it loneliness? Is it the longing of being connected? Is it the longing to be known? Am I looking for the desire of my heart at all the wrong places, when I need to come to the LORD with my broken heart? Is it pride that keeps me from acknowledging my loneliness? Dear LORD, I do long for a relationship that is for life with another, with the one YOU have made me to be a help mate for. Dear LORD, will you give me the strength and courage to acknowledge the pain of not having and longing? Will you help me stop pushing away those feelings and hiding? Will you help me focus on my relationship with YOU at the mean time? Will you prepare our hearts and prepare the time to come? Dear LORD, please draw me closer to you the next time I want to hide from my longings and my loneliness, and the next after that, ...
Dear LORD, I do come to YOU for help to give me a humble heart. Dear LORD, help me be grateful for the blessings you have given me and the gifts you have bestowed on me. Dear LORD, keep me humble that I will not think of myself higher than I actually am. Dear LORD, I do want to lift up the whole issue of my thesis to your hands. Will you help me defend it on time? Now I have done my best. Dear LORD, may YOUR power be made perfect in my weaknesses! May YOUR name be glorified and blessed through my thesis~ Dear LORD, give me the strength to press on. Hold me tight so that I will always hold on to YOU instead of anything else in the stormy times. I love YOU, LORD. Help me love YOU more!
Monday, September 24, 2007
Lectio Divina: Contemplative Bible Reading
From STINT 2007 at Copper Village, Colorado
Contemplative Bible reading is one of the oldest methods of Bible study. Its traditional name is lectio divina, a Latin phrase (pronounced lex-ee-oh di-vee-muh) that can be translated "divine reading," "spiritual reading," or "sacred reading." Contemplative Bible reading is both a simple and a profound way to approach Scripture. It consists of a four-part movement beginning with the text and ending in prayer. This style of Bible reading can be used by both individuals and groups. The four steps that make up contemplative Bible reading are:
Reading/Listening: Read aloud a short passage of Scripture. As you read, listen for the word or phrase that speaks to you. What is the Spirit drawing your attention to?
Meditating: Repeat aloud the word or phrase to which you are drawn. Make connections between it and your life. What is God saying to you by means of this word or phrase?
Praying: Now take these thoughts and offer them back to God in prayers, giving thanks, asking for guidance, asking for forgiveness, and resting in God's love. What is God leading you to pray?
Contemplating: Move from the activity of prayer to the stillness of contemplation. Simply rest in God's presence. Stay open to God. Listen to God. Remain in peace and silence before God. How is God revealing Himself to you?
Contemplative Bible reading is one of the oldest methods of Bible study. Its traditional name is lectio divina, a Latin phrase (pronounced lex-ee-oh di-vee-muh) that can be translated "divine reading," "spiritual reading," or "sacred reading." Contemplative Bible reading is both a simple and a profound way to approach Scripture. It consists of a four-part movement beginning with the text and ending in prayer. This style of Bible reading can be used by both individuals and groups. The four steps that make up contemplative Bible reading are:
Reading/Listening: Read aloud a short passage of Scripture. As you read, listen for the word or phrase that speaks to you. What is the Spirit drawing your attention to?
Meditating: Repeat aloud the word or phrase to which you are drawn. Make connections between it and your life. What is God saying to you by means of this word or phrase?
Praying: Now take these thoughts and offer them back to God in prayers, giving thanks, asking for guidance, asking for forgiveness, and resting in God's love. What is God leading you to pray?
Contemplating: Move from the activity of prayer to the stillness of contemplation. Simply rest in God's presence. Stay open to God. Listen to God. Remain in peace and silence before God. How is God revealing Himself to you?
Prayer List - Sept. 23
Cassie B. - health
Andrea K. - recovery
Betsy B. - recovery
Joe J. - school
Jen B. - small group
Amanda - Job
Kimi N. - Support Raising
Self
Thesis, Research Award Application, Young Adult Ministry, Prep for Nov. Trip, etc.
Church
Leaders, International Student Ministry, Small Groups, Visitors, Kids, Mentors, etc.
Andrea K. - recovery
Betsy B. - recovery
Joe J. - school
Jen B. - small group
Amanda - Job
Kimi N. - Support Raising
Self
Thesis, Research Award Application, Young Adult Ministry, Prep for Nov. Trip, etc.
Church
Leaders, International Student Ministry, Small Groups, Visitors, Kids, Mentors, etc.
How Easily Tears Come - Sept. 23
I can't believe this. I got teary eyed three times this morning. Dear LORD, what are YOU doing?
The first time was during the song You Said. "You said, Ask and I'll give the nations to you. O Lord, that's the cry of my heart." That moment, my heart was overwhelmed. Tears came out despite my protest. I was not able to sing at all. The tears continued their free flowing until the very end of the song. (I suppose it is God's grace that I did not wear make up this morning.) I would be lying if I told you that I was not embarrassed. Dear LORD, will YOU lead me in prayer and service to ask you for the nations. Dear LORD, will YOU continue to prepare and equip me, lead me and guide me, mold me and transform me, ALL for YOUR glory.
Once again I was in tears during the story reading with Mark, and his math teacher, and the two pages of words of affirmation. At least, this time the tears stayed in my eyelids.
When I was playing with little I., tears came to fill my eyelids once again, looking at her and wondering how GOD sees her. Dear LORD, I do pray. Will YOU give me YOUR eyes to see little I., so that I can see her as how YOU see her? As a matter of fact, will YOU give me YOUR eyes to see everyone YOU place in my path? Will YOU help me see them as YOU see them?
I still can't believe how easily these tears came. Is this a sign of psychological health and low defense mechanism? Well, anyhow, the important thing is to keep Kleenex in my purse from now on ~
The first time was during the song You Said. "You said, Ask and I'll give the nations to you. O Lord, that's the cry of my heart." That moment, my heart was overwhelmed. Tears came out despite my protest. I was not able to sing at all. The tears continued their free flowing until the very end of the song. (I suppose it is God's grace that I did not wear make up this morning.) I would be lying if I told you that I was not embarrassed. Dear LORD, will YOU lead me in prayer and service to ask you for the nations. Dear LORD, will YOU continue to prepare and equip me, lead me and guide me, mold me and transform me, ALL for YOUR glory.
Once again I was in tears during the story reading with Mark, and his math teacher, and the two pages of words of affirmation. At least, this time the tears stayed in my eyelids.
When I was playing with little I., tears came to fill my eyelids once again, looking at her and wondering how GOD sees her. Dear LORD, I do pray. Will YOU give me YOUR eyes to see little I., so that I can see her as how YOU see her? As a matter of fact, will YOU give me YOUR eyes to see everyone YOU place in my path? Will YOU help me see them as YOU see them?
I still can't believe how easily these tears came. Is this a sign of psychological health and low defense mechanism? Well, anyhow, the important thing is to keep Kleenex in my purse from now on ~
Words of Correction/Healing - Sept. 23
Songs of Worship: Come Now Is the Time to Worship; Be Unto Your Name; You Said; I Want to Know You More.
Words are like arrows, instead of dagger, because they can go deep and cause damage beyond contact point.
James 5:9
Judge not, lest you be judged. - Matthew 7:1-6
Judge yourself first so that you can see clearly to remove the spike from your brother's eye.
To judge clearly is good. There is good judgment. The Bible warns against a particular way of judging. (Sermon on the Mount. Jesus is rather "judgmental," because He is HUGE on truth. :-)
James 4:11-12; James 5:9; Matthew 7:1-6 - Judge as grumble, slander, judge against
Galatians 6:1-5
* The Law of Christ: John 13:34-35 - Love one another.
* Sin - not personal quirks; issues that are offensive to God.
We correct because the person is getting hurt by the spike, because to sin is to stumble and it hurts.
How to give correction to one another:
1. Be sensitive. It is out of concern, not to criticize or condemn.
2. Be spiritual. It is from the prompting of the Spirit. God talks and He leads you to correct another. His time and His truth.
3. Be humble. First examine yourself. Galatians 6:1-5
4. Be careful. Have a close relationship first. Gal. 6:1 - caught - habitual sin; Know all the facts beforehand.
A beautiful example: John 8 - "Neither do I condemn you. Go and sin no more."
How to keep an eye on myself:
1. Know where I am vulnerable;
2. Give significant others permission to help me;
3. Find an accountability partner.
Correction without connection feels like accusation. First connect and care. :-)
Words are like arrows, instead of dagger, because they can go deep and cause damage beyond contact point.
James 5:9
Judge not, lest you be judged. - Matthew 7:1-6
Judge yourself first so that you can see clearly to remove the spike from your brother's eye.
To judge clearly is good. There is good judgment. The Bible warns against a particular way of judging. (Sermon on the Mount. Jesus is rather "judgmental," because He is HUGE on truth. :-)
James 4:11-12; James 5:9; Matthew 7:1-6 - Judge as grumble, slander, judge against
Galatians 6:1-5
* The Law of Christ: John 13:34-35 - Love one another.
* Sin - not personal quirks; issues that are offensive to God.
We correct because the person is getting hurt by the spike, because to sin is to stumble and it hurts.
How to give correction to one another:
1. Be sensitive. It is out of concern, not to criticize or condemn.
2. Be spiritual. It is from the prompting of the Spirit. God talks and He leads you to correct another. His time and His truth.
3. Be humble. First examine yourself. Galatians 6:1-5
4. Be careful. Have a close relationship first. Gal. 6:1 - caught - habitual sin; Know all the facts beforehand.
A beautiful example: John 8 - "Neither do I condemn you. Go and sin no more."
How to keep an eye on myself:
1. Know where I am vulnerable;
2. Give significant others permission to help me;
3. Find an accountability partner.
Correction without connection feels like accusation. First connect and care. :-)
Sunday, September 23, 2007
Random Thoughts in Quiet Morning Hours - Sept. 23
Finally, I got the time adjusted to the correct Eastern Time from the default.
It was around a hour ago that I woke up from dreaming contra dancing. I went contra last night. It was a blast. I absolutely loved it! Plus, I was praised as "a good swinger" by two different persons during the course of the night :-) That's always a good thing, I suppose. Collecting positive feedback is a healthy thing to do. ^_*
It was interesting that I met an alum last night serving food at the mid-autumn festival. He seemed familiar enough but I have not the tiniest memory piece where I saw him before. He also knew every place I settled in since my internship in college. Well, there are only two before here. :0) But he no longer remembered my name. Strange, strange, ... But I suppose it is a good to meet an alum here.
Anyhow, I woke up at 4:30AM, hungry, which was not surprising how little I did eat last night. My mind was also still excited from the evening. So I got up, loaded the laundry, empties the dish washer, and cleaned the kitchen counter and the microwave. Now I am back to bed with Silk and challah, still hungry but not really wanting to eat. The psalms CD played and ended. But I am too lazy to go change it. I can feel sleep is coming to me and I welcome it with open arms. I can still fit about 3hrs in if I so choose.
BTW: I realized that it is not really laziness when I don't do things. It is mostly because I am too tired, one way or another. Rest and self-care normally solves the situation. :-) What an assurance :-)
P.S. I need to reflect back on my attitude toward the lady coming back to the serving table last night. It is true that she was not very considerate of others and the system. However, I am not proud of my attitude either. I could not even remember the last time I was that grumpy. Oh, LORD, please forgive me and help me be gracious.
It was around a hour ago that I woke up from dreaming contra dancing. I went contra last night. It was a blast. I absolutely loved it! Plus, I was praised as "a good swinger" by two different persons during the course of the night :-) That's always a good thing, I suppose. Collecting positive feedback is a healthy thing to do. ^_*
It was interesting that I met an alum last night serving food at the mid-autumn festival. He seemed familiar enough but I have not the tiniest memory piece where I saw him before. He also knew every place I settled in since my internship in college. Well, there are only two before here. :0) But he no longer remembered my name. Strange, strange, ... But I suppose it is a good to meet an alum here.
Anyhow, I woke up at 4:30AM, hungry, which was not surprising how little I did eat last night. My mind was also still excited from the evening. So I got up, loaded the laundry, empties the dish washer, and cleaned the kitchen counter and the microwave. Now I am back to bed with Silk and challah, still hungry but not really wanting to eat. The psalms CD played and ended. But I am too lazy to go change it. I can feel sleep is coming to me and I welcome it with open arms. I can still fit about 3hrs in if I so choose.
BTW: I realized that it is not really laziness when I don't do things. It is mostly because I am too tired, one way or another. Rest and self-care normally solves the situation. :-) What an assurance :-)
P.S. I need to reflect back on my attitude toward the lady coming back to the serving table last night. It is true that she was not very considerate of others and the system. However, I am not proud of my attitude either. I could not even remember the last time I was that grumpy. Oh, LORD, please forgive me and help me be gracious.
Saturday, September 22, 2007
My CAPS Office - Sept. 21
Finally I am done with my office decor. I also turned in my thesis draft after my brain got totally fried to non-functional. So I took pictures of my office. Just a little show-off. I think this too is somewhere in me with at least a small portion. :-)
Here it is: My 1st Office Decor Effort
Here it is: My 1st Office Decor Effort
Movies this weekend - Sept. 20-22
12 Angry Men
(Here is a man I can admire, Mr. Davis, more so than Mr. D***Y :-)
Sunshine
(Even though I don't agree with the value and acts of many characters, I still have to acknowledge that it is a well-made movie.)
Tender Mercies
(I chose this movie because of the word "grace." It taught me that grace does not have too be huge to have a huge impact. Grace does not need to defend questioning with answers. Grace is just grace, quiet, meek, and gently loves.)
(Here is a man I can admire, Mr. Davis, more so than Mr. D***Y :-)
Sunshine
(Even though I don't agree with the value and acts of many characters, I still have to acknowledge that it is a well-made movie.)
Tender Mercies
(I chose this movie because of the word "grace." It taught me that grace does not have too be huge to have a huge impact. Grace does not need to defend questioning with answers. Grace is just grace, quiet, meek, and gently loves.)
Tuesday, September 18, 2007
Stats Books - Sept. 18
Sunday, September 16, 2007
"Special" Words - Sept. 16
* Words for Results Section: depict, reveal, describe, represent, display, present, point out, picture
Thesis Work Sheet - Sept. 16
Results Section
* Report CI instead of p value, especially for multivariate tests.
* Mediation model report the variance accounted by the variable(s).
* Other variables include vs. not?
* Bonferroni correction
Discussion Section
Study Implications: 1) comparison study; 2) proactive coping theory --> career and work; 3) career development and coping/adjustment; 4) unexpected results: lower WHS, CP-A in international students --> additional career-related support for international students.
Limitations: 1) sample size & representativeness; 2) non-equivalent groups; 3) heterogeneous gruop for international students; 4) cross-sectional, correlational design; 5) relatively new measures;
Future Directions: 1) Second wave study of the original design, adjustment measured by SWLS and PWB; 2) Study the adjustment strain for international students by pre- and post-entry assessments; 3) Career intervention program to support international students; 4) Further studies to shed light on the different regarding full vs. partial mediation model.
Notes:
** Rule of thumb for the inclusion of co-variates - only when the correlation is .70 or above; otherwise, it will suck up variance, thus reduce power, without increase precision. (Porter & Raudenbush, 1987, JCP, 34, 383-392)
** Bob Lent, Coping efficacy; Coping & Career; Barriers & Supports; Female & Minorities
* Report CI instead of p value, especially for multivariate tests.
* Mediation model report the variance accounted by the variable(s).
* Other variables include vs. not?
* Bonferroni correction
Discussion Section
Study Implications: 1) comparison study; 2) proactive coping theory --> career and work; 3) career development and coping/adjustment; 4) unexpected results: lower WHS, CP-A in international students --> additional career-related support for international students.
Limitations: 1) sample size & representativeness; 2) non-equivalent groups; 3) heterogeneous gruop for international students; 4) cross-sectional, correlational design; 5) relatively new measures;
Future Directions: 1) Second wave study of the original design, adjustment measured by SWLS and PWB; 2) Study the adjustment strain for international students by pre- and post-entry assessments; 3) Career intervention program to support international students; 4) Further studies to shed light on the different regarding full vs. partial mediation model.
Notes:
** Rule of thumb for the inclusion of co-variates - only when the correlation is .70 or above; otherwise, it will suck up variance, thus reduce power, without increase precision. (Porter & Raudenbush, 1987, JCP, 34, 383-392)
** Bob Lent, Coping efficacy; Coping & Career; Barriers & Supports; Female & Minorities
University Counseling Centers - Sept. 16
* Guinee & Ness (2000). TCP, 28, 267-280. "make consultation a high priority, developing self-help programs and materials, and working whenever possible as consultants and trainers in support of personal growth and development."
Saturday, September 15, 2007
Paperwork Tips - Sept 14
* Try to be congruent with how it is done in real life. The Grown-Up Way vs. The Trainee Way :-)
* Issues discussed, methods/techniques used; progress observed/reported.
* Be concrete. Focus on behavior and behavior change. Point out change of thinking but link to behavior.
* Indicate your work, without referring "I" an "we" overly frequently. "With encouragement ... " "The CL was open to suggestions/alternatives ... " "After alternatives were presented, ..."
* Make the transition. "The primary focus of the session is ... Additional issues discussed include ..."
* Avoid jargon, such as "process (talk about), dynamics (interactions), instill hope (set up expectations), reframe (describe what the CL views as a weakness as a strength by proposing a different perspective), reinstate, ..."
* Be efficient.
* Description - What Happened? Assessment - What do you make of it? interpretation; progress or not; continuation; switch of focus; a stumbling block; going in circles; Plan - What comes next? Homework check in, info to provide, actions to take, etc. "She agreed to ..." "After some discussion, the CL decided ... " ;
* "Strengths were identified to demonstrate the CL's ability to ... "
* Some words to use: conclude, accept, agree, indicate, demonstrate, etc.
* Issues discussed, methods/techniques used; progress observed/reported.
* Be concrete. Focus on behavior and behavior change. Point out change of thinking but link to behavior.
* Indicate your work, without referring "I" an "we" overly frequently. "With encouragement ... " "The CL was open to suggestions/alternatives ... " "After alternatives were presented, ..."
* Make the transition. "The primary focus of the session is ... Additional issues discussed include ..."
* Avoid jargon, such as "process (talk about), dynamics (interactions), instill hope (set up expectations), reframe (describe what the CL views as a weakness as a strength by proposing a different perspective), reinstate, ..."
* Be efficient.
* Description - What Happened? Assessment - What do you make of it? interpretation; progress or not; continuation; switch of focus; a stumbling block; going in circles; Plan - What comes next? Homework check in, info to provide, actions to take, etc. "She agreed to ..." "After some discussion, the CL decided ... " ;
* "Strengths were identified to demonstrate the CL's ability to ... "
* Some words to use: conclude, accept, agree, indicate, demonstrate, etc.
Sexual Trauma, Termn., etc. - Sept. 10
* A potential script: "Do you want to tell me what happened? Some feel safe to talk about it and experience a sense of relief after talking; others are not ready to talk yet; and still some never want to talk about it. You need to decide it yourself and I respect your decision. If and when you reach a new place, you can let me know as well."
* "Can you tell me a little bit about it so that I can get a general idea?"
* "How does it affect your life right now?"
* Deal with the immediate here-and-now. "How is it like to come and talk with me?" (Some can talk right away; the others need to test me out.)
* Present options and alternatives. Let them choose and support their choice. Empower. Restore a sense of control, agency, and predictability (safety).
* Mini-experiences. "I decided and then it happened this way." Provide feedback to help gain the insight.
* Believe them, their experience, and how they see it.
* No control vs. feel control; no control ~ anxiety, helplessness; control ~ responsibility, self-blaming.
* When people feel out of control, people generally cope by one of two ways. (1) "should"s, self-blaming -> lowered anxiety, but increased depression; 2) anxiety, (encourage the CL to hang in there if appropriate). The CL's mistake vs. the other person's mistake; boundary; responsibility (self vs. other).
* "You know I can't tell you how to live your life." :0) Decision making; not ready; sit with the unsettledness;
* Check in. Everything is going well. "Did you get what you came here for? Is there something else you would like to work on right now?" "If somethings comes up in the future, you can always come back."
* NEVER work harder than the CL.
* Support. Reflect. Encourage. Point out past accomplishment.
* "Can you tell me a little bit about it so that I can get a general idea?"
* "How does it affect your life right now?"
* Deal with the immediate here-and-now. "How is it like to come and talk with me?" (Some can talk right away; the others need to test me out.)
* Present options and alternatives. Let them choose and support their choice. Empower. Restore a sense of control, agency, and predictability (safety).
* Mini-experiences. "I decided and then it happened this way." Provide feedback to help gain the insight.
* Believe them, their experience, and how they see it.
* No control vs. feel control; no control ~ anxiety, helplessness; control ~ responsibility, self-blaming.
* When people feel out of control, people generally cope by one of two ways. (1) "should"s, self-blaming -> lowered anxiety, but increased depression; 2) anxiety, (encourage the CL to hang in there if appropriate). The CL's mistake vs. the other person's mistake; boundary; responsibility (self vs. other).
* "You know I can't tell you how to live your life." :0) Decision making; not ready; sit with the unsettledness;
* Check in. Everything is going well. "Did you get what you came here for? Is there something else you would like to work on right now?" "If somethings comes up in the future, you can always come back."
* NEVER work harder than the CL.
* Support. Reflect. Encourage. Point out past accomplishment.
Thursday, September 13, 2007
Clinical Paperwork Tips - Sept 13
* For the description section of the progress notes, group the information according to theme instead of chronology and the session content.
Wednesday, September 12, 2007
My Liger Coloring Recap (from PSYC 611) - Sept 12
Liger (Video Clip)
"It's pretty much my favorite animal. It's like a lion and a tiger mixed... bred for its skills in magic."
"It's pretty much my favorite animal. It's like a lion and a tiger mixed... bred for its skills in magic."
With $5,000,000? (from PSYC 611) - Sept 12
The Activity: Broadening Our Vision and Dreams for Our Career
You have just completed your Ph.D. in counseling psychology. As a graduation gift, a long-lost relative gives you $5,000,000. You are entitled to keep all of the money. The only requirement is that you must work. You can do anything you want in your work. What would you want to be doing in your work? What type of setting(s) would you want to be in?
WORK - the intent to accomplish something of value
I am never too enthusiastic about activities such as this. First, I do not care too much about money. Money is important, as for everybody. However, relatively speaking, money does NOT have a huge bearing on my decision making. I am a relatively frugal person. I am rather good at living with limited financial resources and stretching them, good at (intuitively) budgeting and saving money, ... I enjoy a little luxury here and there, but am fond of a simple life in general. Thanks to my upbringing and my gifted and virtuous mother. :-) I will give up good pay for something I love with my heart in a heartbeat. That's right. It is all about the HEART.
Anyway, it is difficult for me to respond to such a question. Well, I still want to be a stay-home mom (and you do realize a good wife is implied here, right?). Something probably won't be very well received and edifying to others considering the setting. Something I won't feel safe to share, considering the lack of prospective candidate at the present time. May the LORD help him ^_*
Aside from it, I thought of building an orphanage and a school. It is all about children, the hope of tomorrow. Well, if I never get married, I will devote myself and my maternal love to all children God places in my path. Yet I still kind of think this will be a waste of some sort. I do think I have pretty good genes to pass on as well as good "softwares." :-) (My "shameless" self-evaluation.)
Then I realized that the one thing I REALLY want to do is to share my JESUS and His LOVE with others.
None of this is close to my more routine idea of working at a university setting. As I think of it, I realized that it is about making an impact. With limited resources, there are limited possibility of making an impact. Ample resources take away some restrictions and open more doors.
I don't think I will have $5,000,000 dropped at my doorsteps. However, I can surely implement my values in my WORK (the magic word) whenever the LORD leads me.
You have just completed your Ph.D. in counseling psychology. As a graduation gift, a long-lost relative gives you $5,000,000. You are entitled to keep all of the money. The only requirement is that you must work. You can do anything you want in your work. What would you want to be doing in your work? What type of setting(s) would you want to be in?
WORK - the intent to accomplish something of value
I am never too enthusiastic about activities such as this. First, I do not care too much about money. Money is important, as for everybody. However, relatively speaking, money does NOT have a huge bearing on my decision making. I am a relatively frugal person. I am rather good at living with limited financial resources and stretching them, good at (intuitively) budgeting and saving money, ... I enjoy a little luxury here and there, but am fond of a simple life in general. Thanks to my upbringing and my gifted and virtuous mother. :-) I will give up good pay for something I love with my heart in a heartbeat. That's right. It is all about the HEART.
Anyway, it is difficult for me to respond to such a question. Well, I still want to be a stay-home mom (and you do realize a good wife is implied here, right?). Something probably won't be very well received and edifying to others considering the setting. Something I won't feel safe to share, considering the lack of prospective candidate at the present time. May the LORD help him ^_*
Aside from it, I thought of building an orphanage and a school. It is all about children, the hope of tomorrow. Well, if I never get married, I will devote myself and my maternal love to all children God places in my path. Yet I still kind of think this will be a waste of some sort. I do think I have pretty good genes to pass on as well as good "softwares." :-) (My "shameless" self-evaluation.)
Then I realized that the one thing I REALLY want to do is to share my JESUS and His LOVE with others.
None of this is close to my more routine idea of working at a university setting. As I think of it, I realized that it is about making an impact. With limited resources, there are limited possibility of making an impact. Ample resources take away some restrictions and open more doors.
I don't think I will have $5,000,000 dropped at my doorsteps. However, I can surely implement my values in my WORK (the magic word) whenever the LORD leads me.
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